Two sisters loved their parents dearly. As they grew into adulthood and started families of their own, one sister moved to a larger city and the other started to nest in their hometown. As time passed, their parents came of age and necessitated the assistance of their children. Every day, juggling work, household chores and the various schedules of her own children, would visit her parents for several minutes to prepare them a glass of tea and ensure everything as ok.
The out-of-town daughter, would schedule week long trips, several times a year, to visit her parents. During that week she would be focused 100% to her dear parents, entertaining them and providing for their every need.
While no one can judge the depth and value of their respective love and devotion to their parents, one may try imagine which daughter’s service is more appreciated by the elderly couple.
In this week’s parsha (Pinchas) G-d communicates the way the Jewish people should “provide” for Him. Each morning and afternoon a sheep, purchased from the communal “half shekel” treasury should be offered on the Altar in the Holy Temple on behalf of the nation. This mitzvah is called the “Korban Tamid” – the Consistent Sacrifice. No sacrifice would precede the morning Tamid on the altar, nor was anything offered following the service of the afternoon Tamid.
On Shabbat, festivals and Rosh Chodesh there were additional, more grandiose offerings in honor of the auspicious days, yet the simple one-sheep consistent offering never failed to open and close the Temple service. Even the awesome service of Yom Kippur did not over shadow the Tamid ritual. 365 days a year, no matter the season or weather, as long as the Temple stood in Jerusalem, the Tamid sacrifice was never compromised.
Today, in the absence of the Holy Temple, we serve G-d primarily through prayer in the synagogue. There are various prayer liturgies recited on various occasions. The Shabbat and festival liturgies feature many beautiful hymns and poetic prayers. The High Holidays are best known for inspiring recitations and soulful melodies. While these exciting occasions are crucial and all are encouraged to attend and participate, G-d desires daily and consistent interaction with His children.
While the long distance daughter is so appreciated when she comes for an extended and enjoyable visit, the short but daily visits by the in-towner are what truly bring solace and encouragement to the elderly parents.
Set aside a few minutes each day to recite a few prayers and communicate with the divine. Commit yourself to a mitzvah that will be observed daily without fail. A few minutes of Torah study, placing a few coins in the charity box each morning (not on Shabbat and festivals), the options are endless. By incorporating Jewish practice in daily life, one develops an in-towner relationship with G-d.